Wednesday 9 April 2014

9 marriage lessons from watching football

Many of us watch the game of football for various reasons. While some tend to take side with one side with an expectation that the winning side should win. Others watch the game for fun. Personally, i see football as a body of knowledge . Each match provides a lesson for us. Here is a list of knowledge gained from football and its application to our marital life. 1) PLAN AND PRACTICE YOUR FORMATION ; marriage is about planning.everything is planned,from who takes kids to school,to who enforces kids discipline to who oversees kids education etc. YES-MONEY IS IMPORTANT ; Money can strenghten marriage just as it strenghtened chelsea and manchester city.a guy who cant take care of himself shouldnt bother geting married.else,he will be relegated to division 2. DONT FIGHT YOUR PATNER PUBLICLY ;SHE IS in your team. The opponents are outsiders.even if she is wrong,dont criticise her publicly.do that privately. DONT ALWAYS EXPECT PERFECTION FROM YOUR PATNER ; everyone makes mistake.strikers dont score in every match.dont yell at her if food is burnt,salty or pepperish.every one makes mistake. Rooney misses penalty.John terry scores owngoal. YOU CANT OFFICIATE YOUR OWN MATCH ;at times when you have strongdisagreement,dont always insist on your way.you may seek advice from a trusted unbiased person.dont be like mourinho who blames everyone except himself or else be prepared to move from one marriage to another. BE DISCIPLINED ; BEING married means you shouldnt get involved in certain things.stop smoking in front of kids,late night drinks etc.if you continue committing fouls,nature may punnish you with a penalty(unwanted pregnancy) or redcard(divorce) ASSIST YOUR PATNER TO SCORE A GOAL ; It is better to assist your patner to score a goal instead ofonly you scoring. Have you bougt 3 cars before,give her money to buy any car of her choicee. Do you have doctorate degree, get her a masters degree form. CELEBRATION ; WHENEVER any of u achieve a goal eg promotion, celebrate it. Take her out like you were dating. Do stupid things. Get her birthday gift etc.many players e.g hazard play ball for fun. Marriage should be for fun. And lastly, dont give up on your marriage. If CHELSEA COULD ELIMINATE PSG, YOU CAN MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE BETTER DESPITE INITIAL ERRORS

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