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who said it first?

I'm not sure how this applies in the Nigerian dating culture and I would be glad if someone enlightens me but I know in the western world, saying "I Love You" for the first time is a really big deal, I mean a huge deal in relationships and I've never really understood why people place so much emphasis on who says it first, how soon you say it and even where you say it. Now, I know this affects men and women in different ways so I'll address the both angels. Ladies First... So here comes Angela and Segun who have been dating for 5 months and Segun is yet to say the three magic words. Angela starts to panic, ".. does he love me..? ... should I say it first..? maybe he's too shy to say it..? .. Oh God, he's seeing another girl...." All these and even worse are the thoughts in Angela's head. So what should she do? Men... Here is Segun, enjoying the relationship that he has going with Angela. Everything thing seems to be going well and he really does care about her but he is not yet at the commitment stage. One day, they are on a romantic date when Angela tells Segun "...babe, I have something I've been wanting to tell you.." (Segun begins to think.. Oh Oh....) Angela: "Babe, I want you to know that I love you..." Segun: Oh! .. **awkward silence** Angela feels hurt that Segun did not say it back while Segun is scared that he's now in trouble and the relationship just got complicated. See what I mean? Way too much complication. We attached unnecessary value to irrelevancies in our relationships. Who says I love you first is irrelevant and has nothing to do with the success of a relationship. You know why? Because people lie! All the time!What if Segun says "I love you too.." but he really doesn't?People can say and do anything just to get what they want and to please the other party. Saying I love you these days is not a guarantee of anything. So stop complicating issues and just go with it. On the other hand, what if Segun starts acting like the sun rises and sets on his behind all because Angela said the words first? Someone once said that whoever says "I love you" first in the relationship is in the weakest link. DogShit! That's a whole load of crap that people just feed you without even understanding your own scenario. You have to understand that relationships vary from person to person. What works for A is not necessarily going to work for B. So don't run your relationship the same way Sade does hers, you'll only get one result: disaster! Here's what I think, it's not even an issue; just say it! If you are convinced enough that you feel that strongly for that person then just say it. You can only get three responses: (1) I love you too, (2) The person is almost at the same place with you, and (3) the person doesn't love you now, and isn't going to any time soon. Based on whatever the response you get is, just keep on moving. And even if he/she says it back, talk is cheap. It's the person's actions towards you that will tell you whether he/she really does love you or not. But either way, stop treating your relationship with some 12 steps that you read in a book and attaching meaning to who says it first because if you are both meant to be together, such things would be irrelevant. Most importantly, If you love someone, just tell them becausetoday is given but tomorrow is not guaranteed...

5 "over riped" single nigerian artist

(5)FAZE ALONE ; EARLIER this year, Hip-hop act,Chibuzor Orji popularly known as Faze is currently was rumores to be in a sizzling romance with Sierra Leone actress,Marian Kekurah. The abia state singer promised to tie the knot this year. Faze ,we are waiting. (4) M I JUDE ABAGA : M I is over 33. Last year, he was rumoured to be getting married To Girlfriend Erica Okundaye. That rumour was later swept under the carpet. Till date, the pleateu state rapper is not considering settling down. (3) TIMAYA ; Dem mama soldier, ; the Egberi Papa 1 of bayelsa is really supposed to be engaged by now. Born November 29, 1977. Timaya currently has a daughter whom he is proud of but has no plan of marrying the mother of his daughter.perharps, his spell with Empress still hurts. (2) BANKY W.... I am suprise that Mr incredible is realy single. May be he is still searching for someone to do him strong thing. (1) DBANJ The self-acclaimed Komomaster, Dapo Oyebanjo, popularly known as D’Banj, has expressed his readiness to walk down the aisle very soon. Few years ago, it was reported that the energetic singer would pick a lady as wife after it was earlier rumoured that his mother kicked against his purported affair with Genevieve Nnaji, a Nollywood star. The 34-year-old music star is no doubt a hot cake to ladies, who would be glad to be D’Banj’s wife or be called ‘Mrs. D’Banj’. Who among these five would get married first?only time would tell

kids and news

yesterday, i spentthe night in an aunt place. After supper,the kids of probably 7- 9years sat down in the parlour eager to watch NTA NETWORK NEWS.After series of interogation, i gathered the mum ensured they watch news and write a summary of what the news says. That got me thinking. Should kids of less than ten years be mandated to watch news? Should they be exposed to crimes shown?yester night, 30 minutes was spent showing survivors of nyanya bomb blast, dead bodies, divided human parts,devasted cars etc. These scenes were enough to cause a nightmare, i wonder what must be going on in their mind.they may be thinking " this could happen to me or mummy" . It could cause them sleepless night. I think exposing kids to daily news has devastating long term emotional effect . Kids should not be introduced to news until they become tenegers. What bout you?how old should kids be exposed to news?

why women hate more beautiful women

the pride of a woman lies on her beauty while that of a man lies on his wealth. However,men are happy when their fellow men achieve. They tend to hang out with wealthy men in order to benefit from their wealth. The same cant be said of ladies.cute women tend to hate more beautiful ladies. Women tend to focus on other persons and not themselves.this is why they tend to gossip more.they easily notice a girl who excells in an area they lack.when they see a girl having the looks they crave for, they tend to be jelous. Girls lov to take center of action.if a woman walks in a room of men.she likes all eyes to admire her. All those flattering,extra cash etc from male colleagues .when a more beautiful lady enters the scene, it becomes obvious she has a challenger. She cant compete with someone more endowned so she begins to hate. If the beautiful lady is closer to her by family. There is a rule. The beautiful girl must never meet your guy else he starts chasing her and leaves you.girls take relationship too seriously. Such jelousy leads to insecurity. They know the girl is more endowned than they are and is capable of winning them in beauty contest. Ladies know the feminine power and they know beautiful ladies naturally use it on men to get favours. Smart cute ladies who use their brains hate seeing beautiful ladies esp with sleeveless and short skirts. They hate it when some beautiful lady use their beauty to degrade womanhood.